I have a secret thrift
store. And my friends want to know where it is.
They see the clothes I find
there. The vintage kitchen items. And the hard-to-find books.
I’ve had people beg me for
the address.
But I won’t tell them.
Not even my closest friends.
Because it’s MY Secret
Garden.
“But I’m not even your
size! And I’m a man!”
Doesn’t matter. You’ll eventually tell my doppelganger.
“But I can keep a
secret. I SWEAR!!!”
People THINK they can keep a secret----but let me remind you that someone
pointed out Anne Frank.
ANNE FRANK!
And my Secret Annex is not
only an awesome thrift store----it’s magic!
One day I had a free
afternoon and was on my way there when I thought to myself, “You know----you
really don’t need anything. Maybe you
should take a walk in the park instead?
Or go to a museum? What do you
need that could possibly be there?”
And then I answered back to
myself, “Well, I don’t NEED anything, but I wish I could find an Elizabeth David cookbook.”
Five minutes after walking
in the door, I had a 1959 Penguin Edition of French Country Cooking in my hands.
For a dollar.
Maybe I just need to make
more wishes! My life is going to be AMAZING
from now on!!!
So I kept wishing.
Unfortunately, not every
rabbit hole leads to Wonderland.
Sometimes you just step in mud and rabbit poo.
But while my life isn’t
always Utopia-----my secret thrift store has never let me down. I can walk thru the doors of that magical wardrobe
and wish for anything from a cool vintage t-shirt to a garlic keeper----and I
will find it in Narnia.
For a dollar.
After discovering several of
David’s cookbooks in my Boo Radley tree, I began to wonder about the life of
the woman who wrote so brilliantly and was so passionately knowledgeable about
food.
So this week, I book-wormed
my way thru Writing at the Kitchen Table:
The Authorized Biography of Elizabeth David.
Elizabeth David was born
into an upper-class family in Britain
in 1913. A bit too rebellious for the
life of a debutante, she shocked her family by going off to Paris
to study acting, quickly realized she was no good at it, and then ran off with
her lover on a yacht to sail the Mediterranean .
Unfortunately, they chose
the outbreak of World War II as their departure date. They spent the rest of the war trying to get
away from it----shuttling between Greece ,
Egypt , India , and even
spent time in an Italian prison accused of espionage.
When she finally got back to
England
in 1946, she was shocked at the toll wartime food rations had taken on the already
bland British cuisine. To earn a bit of
money, she began to write articles describing all the heavenly dishes she had
eaten during her Mediterranean years while the folks back home were subsisting
on tinned meats and powdered eggs. Different
from most cooking manuals of the day, she wrote about fresh ingredients,
seasonality, how to cook with wine, and the emotional response to food and its
preparation.
Far from being resentful at
her years of plenty, the still-rationed British public gobbled up her articles
like food porn.
She went on to publish
several ground-breaking books that introduced then-exotic ingredients like
zucchini, olive oil, and Parmesan cheese to the English-speaking world. Her books on French, Mediterranean ,
and Italian cooking won her world-renown.
When she wrote a favorable review of the newly published Mastering the Art of French Cooking,
Julia Child was “simply overwhelmed” and immediately penned a gushing letter
thanking her for the acknowledgement. Her
scholarly work on the history of English bread won her several honorary degrees
and she was eventually made a Fellow of the Royal Society of Literature and a
CBE of the Order of the British Empire .
Despite all the public
accolades, David was intensely private.
She constantly turned down requests for interviews by saying,
“Everything I want to say is in my books.”
Her biography by Artemis
Cooper gives you a rough idea why.
Elizabeth David may have had
a few good days, but she was mostly a bitter, unhappy woman. She fought with friends and family constantly
and held long-standing grudges against editors and business partners. She appears to have spent most of her
evenings all alone and flying into drunken rages---or with scores of sexual partners who cared as
little about her as she did about them.
The great love of her life
was a young officer of the 9th Lancers. But when General Montgomery began to drive
Rommel out of North Africa , the officer’s jeep
hit a landmine. He was taken to a Cairo hospital where his
legs were amputated. Elizabeth visited him in the hospital and
brought him some home-cooked food----but she knew she wasn’t the sort to play
nursemaid and walked away.
He married a wonderful woman
and lived happily ever after.
Elizabeth David continued to
make herself miserable.
When she was only 49, she
became maniacally obsessed with some illustrated plates her publisher had lost----and
then she discovered that her boyfriend of ten years was in love a younger
woman.
She completely lost it. Screaming and hurling the contents of her
home like a one-woman tornado, she finally collapsed into a heap. She discovered soon after that she was physically
unable to talk----she had given herself a cerebral hemorrhage.
She spent weeks in the National Hospital for Nervous Diseases recovering
from what amounted to a stroke.
While trying to keep her condition from editors, publishers, and the general public----she wrote an article from her hospital bed for The Spectator describing a fish market:
"In the dawn light of the Rialto markets...a sole isn't made of old white cricket flannels but of pale lilac silk, and....if you are looking you may see a pyramid of apricots radiating rose and gilt reflections from a catch of red mullet..."
Her image was all she had.
While trying to keep her condition from editors, publishers, and the general public----she wrote an article from her hospital bed for The Spectator describing a fish market:
"In the dawn light of the Rialto markets...a sole isn't made of old white cricket flannels but of pale lilac silk, and....if you are looking you may see a pyramid of apricots radiating rose and gilt reflections from a catch of red mullet..."
Her image was all she had.
Her power of speech
eventually came back; but it took quite a while longer for her to regain
something else she’d lost---her sense of taste.
Only her doctors and a few close friends knew that the famous cookbook writer was putting her latest concoctions into four separate dishes and discreetly asking her dinner companions to taste them "to see which is properly salted".
Only her doctors and a few close friends knew that the famous cookbook writer was putting her latest concoctions into four separate dishes and discreetly asking her dinner companions to taste them "to see which is properly salted".
From there it was more
drinking and sleeping pills, more rages and family disputes, and then a whole messy
business with her quaint little kitchen shop in London that caused her to fly
into yet more rages, leave her own company, and spend years taking out lawyer-like ads denying her connection with them.
Frankly, by the time I got
to this chapter, I was pretty sick of her myself. I looked at the number of remaining pages
left to read in the book and thought, “I wish she’d hurry up and die soon. A hundred more pages! Nooooo!!!!!”
But I kept reading. Because I really wanted her to be happy.
And then it came out that
her younger sister who lived in David’s upstairs apartment (in exchange for
typing duties) was hospitalized for malnutrition. Likely some form of anorexia, but David
appeared more mortified that the famous cookery writer’s live-in sister was
starving to death than getting her sibling any actual help.
Her life continued
on---writing, drinking, trying to steal archival materials, more drinking, falls
causing broken bones (likely from the drinking), suicides of relatives, more
falls, more strokes, more bitter feuds.
She spent her final days in a
constant dread that someone would write her biography.
And eventually she died---and someone
did.
I’m SO happy I’m done
reading it. It’s been depressing me for
days now.
I still won’t tell you where
my secret thrift store is.
And I’ll still keep wishing
for good things in my life.
But perhaps the key to
happiness is how you handle life when you don’t get exactly what you want.
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